Dogs are loyal companions and always by their owner’s side. Nevertheless, a strong bond and trust between humans and dogs must first be built and then strengthened again and again. This does not happen overnight, but requires permanent, species-appropriate handling of the dog, knowledge of its behavior and a lot of activity and time. The following tips will help you strengthen the bond between you and your dog.
Playing together strongly promotes the bond between humans and dogs. Because you spend a lot of time with your dog, who also has a lot of fun with it: Positive experiences weld together.
On the other hand, if your dog has few or no such experiences with you, he will remember that he can have more fun without you and also try to get his own way.
There are a number of things you can try to find out which game your dog likes best. Often it is enough to run around without toys. Then the contact with your dog is even closer.
Dogs need clarity and rules in their everyday life. The owner has to be predictable for his dog because that creates security and trust for the dog. This is achieved through unambiguous and clear rules that he can use as a guide.
Also, your tone of voice and body language should match what you want to convey to your dog. If you give commands, the tone and body language should always be the same, otherwise the dog will be confused. Regular feeding, walking or playing times can also help to give the dog structure and security.
Playing together creates a bond. © Halfpoint-stock.adobe.com
Respect and esteem is probably one of the most important points in the relationship between humans and dogs. Treat them lovingly and respect their needs. This also includes, for example, finding the right balance between activity and rest. Because in addition to exercise and attention, a dog also needs a lot of rest during the day. You should definitely grant him this.
Respect is also particularly important when playing and training. Be aware of what your dog likes and what he can do. Because he should neither be overwhelmed nor under-challenged when playing and training.
Additionally, if your dog is of a particular breed, then you should be careful to take into account the specific needs of that breed. Because the interests and activities of dogs vary greatly from breed to breed. For example, there are dogs who love water, like to follow tracks, prefer to fetch, guard the house or need a lot of exercise. In any case, allow your dog to be as busy as it is typical for its breed.
In order for it to be possible at all to offer the dog both rules and respect, communication is essential. However, dogs speak their own language, which they express primarily through their bodies and behavior.
It is therefore important that you study dog language extensively and pay close attention to what your dog is trying to tell you. You can get to know your dog’s language and behavior even better by playing together or doing other activities. In this way you avoid communicative misunderstandings that stand in the way of a strong bond between dog and human.
Functioning communication between humans and dogs is the key to love and trust. © Mary Swift-stock.adobe.com
Similar to people with each other, common (success) experiences also connect people and dogs with each other. This can be, for example, long, extended adventure walks in unknown places or hikes in which you discover the path together and ultimately master it.
Training together can also be a sense of achievement, as long as it is done with respect and communication between humans and dogs works. If you get impatient or angry when your dog does not understand or carry out a command, this cannot be the basis for trust.
Love arises above all when trust is involved. When your dog is sure he can trust you, his love for you will grow too. In addition to aspects such as clear rules, respect and communication, you can also gain your dog’s trust by proving and protecting him in stressful situations.
If, for example, a situation arises during a walk in which your dog is visibly uncomfortable or is afraid due to other people, dogs or noise, you can resolve the situation for him. For example, you can stand protectively in front of him, talk to people or dog owners, or leave noisy places as quickly as possible. Even if you have visitors and your dog just wants some peace and quiet, ask your visitor not to pet the dog. This is how your dog will notice that he is safe with you by his side.